Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Perfect Boy

The perfect kind of boyfriend. I doubt that there is going to be one, maybe close but not perfect. The list goes on and on for a boyfriend aiming to be a perfect boyfriend to his girl: Ways to act in front of her girl friends, ways to act in the public, ways to impress her parents, ways to make her feel special, etc . Maybe you will argue with me, something about true love and that when you find it, everything about him is perfect. Yea, I agree. Me, myself, I've been in love a few times and trust me, It didn't end well. Maybe it's my luck or whatever. Okay, back to the topic. I got the idea for this blog post by watching this Taiwanese Drama about a guy who underwent surgery to become skinny and good looking to win the heart of the love of his life or so he thinks. But you know, he ended up falling in love with his plastic surgeon. So I was thinking, is there some special kind of attribute in a guy that could easily attract girls? If there is, what is it? Being bad? Being sexy? Or is it the physical appearance that counts? Well, I don't know but I sure can list out a list of things I find attractive on a boy or a man that makes him the perfect guy in my heart.

Physical appearance

1. Tall?! ( Well, he have to be at least 10 cm taller than me, I mean for god sake, I'm only 159 cm, I'm so short. HAHA )

2. Arm muscles! ( I'm really particular about this, something really attractive about it. :) )

Qualities

1. He must have a good sense of humour. It's even better if he laugh at my lamest joke. That would make me feel good. 

2. He must not be possessive. Chilling out with friend, NO. Going shopping, NO. Taking out the trash, NO. God, how bored and suffocating will that life be?

3. Compliment me. I mean, not that he have to praise me everytime I throw a new dress on or I got a new haircut, but at least compliment me when I'm fishing for it using sentences like How do I look? Pretty? Stunning? 

4. He must be an animal lover. He must accept how important Dot Dot is, in my heart.

5. Respect my privacy. He can't go through my personal stuff. 

6. Willing to be cuddle by me. I'm the cuddling sort of person so he must have enough patience to stand with my constant request for cuddling. :D

7. Willing to watch cartoon and rom-com with me. I'm a big fan of both! <3 font="">

8. Fashion sense. Or if he does not have one or any, let me dress him up. I mean, as in picking out his clothes when we are going out. Either that or I can go shop for his clothes in the mall.

And that concludes most of the things I think should appear on a perfect boyfriend. But this is not every girl/woman wants. Ha. I mean for single and never been in a relationship girl to comment on this is really ridiculous but hey, I was just stating my opinion. Freedom of speech, eh? For you out there, still searching for the right one, well, I'm in the group. While for you people who found one that has all the things I just list and more good quality that you lose count on your fingers, well, don't ever let him go. If your guy don't have the above quality, WELL, as long as he loves, protects, care and treats you well then stay with him. That's all that counts. 

Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy.  If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.

3 comments:

  1. haha.nice. but go shopping & fashion sense? hmm.. just let it be la.haha

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  2. Shopping and fashion sense, some have it! HAHA

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  3. dear,if ever one day a guy who got all of these standing in front of you. Must tell me! hahahahah! ;D I would like to see this kind of guy in real life! =P

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